You guysss!!! 😭 I came on here to tell y’all that I finally got a job after 3 months of job hunting. Gosh, it wasn’t easy at all, but yeah… God really gives the best gifts. I'm so grateful right now 🙏🏾😊🥹
I don't really know what this post is going to be about but I just felt like writing.
Life has been doing that thing where everything feels like it is happening and not happening at the same time. 😂
I've been thinking a lot about work, growth, the things I want for myself,
So this is just a little life update. No big lesson, no “5 things you need to know”, no perfectly planned story.
Just me, documenting this particular phase of my life.
Maybe I'll look back at this someday and realise how much has changed 😊
I don't really know what this post is going to be about but I just felt like writing.
Life has been doing that thing where everything feels like it is happening and not happening at the same time. 😂
I've been thinking a lot about work, growth, the things I want for myself,
the things I'm still figuring out, and how different life looks from what I imagined it would be.
I've learnt enough during the course of the year and I'm genuinely grateful for everything💯
i like intimacy with artifacts. your hoodie at my crib. my chain on your neck. your perfume in my sheets. little evidence that two separate lives keep leaking into each other.
We romanticized being detached because admitting “I really fuxk!ng love you and losing you would hurt me” requires a type of gangster this generation doesn’t respect enough.
I Woke up this morning and I decided to take BIKE, 2 hours out of Port Harcourt to a village I've never been before, for PVC sensitization and registrations😂
Village people no dey stress person at all❤️
Seems like they value politics/elections more than the City Folks🤔
Because, not a single person I met in that village complained about votes not counting, neither did anyone ask me to convince them to register for PVC!
In fact, once I was done with one compound, they take me to the next compound to register everone! No stress 🫶
They even gifted me Palm wine & Palm oil o🙂😁
As someone with much older friends, you will meet men and women who would be fond of you for no sexual reason whatsoever. They’ll be generous. They’ll buy you gifts. And they’ll want nothing in return.
It’s more common than you think.
I was in a bus today and a man was shouting that any woman that doesn’t want to be controlled by a man should not marry……
We were 4 women in the bus, he kept saying it loudly, expecting us to counter or argue with him……
All of us ignored him…..
No be me you go rage bait this hot afternoon save it for your poor wife….
If your significant other doesn’t like onions, you blend it into the food. Meet yourselves in the middle.
If your S/O doesn’t like sleeping with light on? The middle ground is usually that you should get an eye mask.
If you’re clingy and they aren’t? You cling a little less, they lean in a little more. That’s usually where the middle is found.
If you love PDA and they don’t? Dial it down a little, they dial it up a little. Meet yourselves in the middle.
Life isn’t hard, date considerate people that actually like you.