Someone did not want me to go to work tonight
He groomed himself on my lap and when I picked him up, he audibly complained. I love this little voidling so so much
@femiiiszn@jasminjoestar I would wait for my ex fiancee to share a new trailer for whatever fandom we were in just to watch her absolutely geek the hell out. It brought me so much joy watching her enjoy the things she loved...
Also watching her do happy wiggles after she would eat what I cooked...
This is exactly why having a kind and considerate partner will always matter to me. If you ever fall out of love with me, please talk to me about it. Please communicate it. Please do not ghost me.
People rarely talk about the emotional, mental, and personal effects of being suddenly abandoned by someone who once claimed to love you deeply, someone who once made you feel wanted, safe, and irreplaceable. One day you’re sharing dreams, memories, affection, and plans for the future, then suddenly you’re left with silence, unanswered questions, confusion, and the painful responsibility of trying to figure out where everything changed on your own.
Ghosting someone you once loved is unfair because it leaves them grieving both the relationship and the lack of closure at the same time. It can make people question their worth, replay conversations endlessly in their minds, and carry trust issues into future relationships.
I genuinely believe honesty hurts less than disappearance. Even if the truth is painful, at least it gives the other person the chance to heal with clarity instead of emotional confusion.
@Chizitere_xyz I tried explaining that to my ex fiancee. For context, I had caught her cheating on me with multiple individuals she met at Neotropolis and I decided to take her back after she had promised to fix things. She was taking relationship advice from people that were being toxic about
@seattleiminyou My son Boötes has been the reason for me to get out of bed on some of my toughest mental health days. I hope he knows how much I truly love him
Left to right: Zaheer, P'Li, Ghazan, and Ming-Hua of the Red Lotus, anarchist organization in The Last Airbender: Legend of Korra. Cosplay from WonderCon 2016 😁