the bed rotting girls have severe depression and readily admit online that they're barely eating or overeating and their room are a wreck and they can't bring themselves to see their friends and you guys keep being like "get your rest sweetie💖"
If life suddenly starts expanding, elevating and blossoming for the better after you let go of someone they were either an energy vampire or you were an energy over-giver.
Once women get over the ‘this is how I feel’ & go straight to ‘despite how I feel this is what is happening right now’ we can then heal as, our feelings are signals… staying in the red zone talking about your feelings instead of removing yourself to ASSESS properly is how emotions trap women when meant to be used as a internal compass for survival.
Use your emotions wisely & remember you always have access to logic when in an emotion as both parts of your brain are always working TOGETHER.
A man being honest about his shortcomings and traumas is not exactly him being emotionally available or emotionally intelligent. Stop giving men so much credit just for “being honest.” That’s not enough. Next time ask him “so what are you doing to heal through it?”
Betrayal can trigger a trauma response, especially in those who have PTSD or CPTSD.
When a person discovers that someone they loved & trusted has been lying, it is disorienting.
It's never as benign as people like to pretend. Betrayal can have serious emotional consequences.
so funny that 2024 is a karmic year and people either been getting dragged and having issues from the start or having a great year. i’ve personally been having a mf blast lmaoo
It’s crazy how you can spend so much time with someone, be so deeply integrated in one another’s lives, and then one day that just ends. Paths part. Contract complete.