I never realised what a huge red flag it was when men commented on other women's appearance in a negative way because I had such unhealed sister wounds - 'I don't like her makeup' 'she would be pretty without filler' 'surgery ruined her face' 'she looks like a slut'....
I spent most of my twenties absolutely loathing myself and being so crippled with it I could barely walk to the toilet in a restaurant by myself. I was completely hateful of other women because I hated myself. I am still healing from this