tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
no shade, but i don't care to be in people's lives anymore. I'm pretty sure y'all noticed how distant i've became. i just don't got time for wishy washy ass behavior anymore & it takes nothing for me to never speak to certain people again.