“Equality is not the empirical claim that all groups of humans are interchangeable; it is the moral principle that individuals should not be judged or constrained by the average properties of their group” by Steven Pinker. I know I have something I cannot overcome with efforts!
Before wondering if you can do it, you should wonder whether you need to do it. But what is more important is whether you want to do it, before you think you need to do it. However more importantly, the time you cannot want to do it must come sometime soon.