Luthando Hlambisa

[jo johnson @josbjohnson]

I am relentless because the alternative disgusts me. settling, coasting, going soft in the body and lazy in the spirit and half present with the people I love - I’d rather bleed for the higher version every day than drift comfortably toward the smaller one.

[27. @dimvji]

not to get too personal but one thing we don't talk about enough is how expensive it is to put your life back together after a long period of dysfunction and self neglect

[¥ @laylanaiim]

Don’t ever be embarrassed about your life. We all go through things that shake us, humble us, or force us to start over. Moving back home, losing your job, getting your heart broken, going through a divorce, hitting a low mentally… it’s all a part of being human.

[Toriss🦋 @toriss__]

Self awareness is exhausting because it ruins your own excuses. You can’t even ruin your life in peace anymore because you know exactly which old pattern you’re repeating. Ignorance is nolonger bliss,it becomes heavy responsibility.

[smoothie @shedrinkswater]

Being loved by the man you deeply love and respect internally heals you.

There is something disarming about being held by a man who sees you fully and still chooses you. He accepts you as you are, while you spent years quietly believing that certain parts of you made you difficult to love.

The safety you feel with your man is almost unreal.

Just imagine being loved through all the imperfections you spent years resenting in yourself. Imagine having someone you can rely on, someone whose love does not feel conditional.

[R. @makeit_reyn]

It surprises people how much of a loner I really am. I’m always by myself lol

[• @WordsCocoon]

always remember to check your own attitude too. it’s not always the world around you, sometimes you are the toxic person. understand that you can make mistakes and hurt people. understand that there are things you need to work on. apologise, unlearn, and relearn, that’s growth. 💗

[ayo @AyoShinobi]

the worst person you know is performatively religious

[JayJay ᥫ᭡ @Jameca2011]

Just because somebody make good money don’t mean they got money to hand out. 😂 Y’all see income… not bills, investments, savings, responsibilities, or the sacrifices behind it. Stop counting other people’s pockets and focus on building your own. 💯

[Botlhale M. 💕 @Mashishi_B]

I do not advocate for perfection but i advocate for self awareness and accountability as an adult. Take responsibility for your actions and know how your actions affect others people. ♥️

[Donald @RealDonaldDoo]

May we not marry the weapon formed against us.

[The journey of A Christian lady @ThejourneyofACL]

When God is lifting people around you, celebrate them. Don't let comparison or jealousy make you lose your joy and miss what God is doing in your own life. God is in the neighborhood💛

[Lyn🦋 @_ayandamay]

High intelligence often comes with heightened pattern recognition. You start noticing social masks, forced conversations, performative friendships, hidden motives, emotional immaturity, and energy that feels draining instead of nourishing. Many highly intelligent people also have more active nervous systems, deeper inner worlds, and lower tolerance for superficial stimulation, so solitude can feel safer than constantly shrinking themselves to fit environments that don’t feel aligned.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

i dislike being around people who lack emotional intelligence and self regulation. it just irks my soul. if you cannot see things outside of yourself and how you’re harming others, you will never evolve. intention has nothing to do with impact

[🤠 @heavensbvnny]

i love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and you both become aware that neither of you were wrong. you just saw the scenario differently. talking really should be about seeing things from both perspectives, rather than the need to be right.

[Faith Alakija @FaithKhenny]

Grace is never a license to sin. The moment you use it to justify sin, you've exchanged grace for deception.

[Naz🥵 @_naznotes]

Sometimes God will let everything get a bit chaotic just to remind you that your stability was never meant to come from your circumstances, but from His promises.

[liz🧚 @Lizformee]

i’m choosing the man i didn’t have to coach how to be my man, thank you.

[maMvelase ❤️ @Nocylove123]

You cannot treat people like garbage and worship God at the same time.

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

I’m that FRIEND that respects PRIVACY. If you DO NOT tell me, I won’t ask you.