I know this sounds absurd but I never want to date someone who is willing to have kids with me out of wedlock. It’s a red flag for me���✋🏽it’s extreme but I would rather not have kids than have them outside of marriage.
💀 trying to find a baby daddy that won’t end up being a deadbeat to your child in South Africa is an extreme sport therefore it’s not the babies we’re scared of having. It’s the gents we are scared of 😭🙏🏾