Being a Dom, especially a femdom, isn't about begging for money (shameful) or just feeling powerful; it's about a consensual and trusting relationship with a sub, something difficult since there are too many fake or AI accounts of both subs and dommes.
Being a Dom isn't about wearing a crown to flex.
It’s about being trustworthy enough to hold a sub vulnerability in your hands.
A sub isn't there to server your ego
A Dom power comes from responsibility
If being a Dom means feeling powerful you missed the meaning to be a Dom.
I feel like if dommes stuck together like the subs do, we’d be unstoppable. But alas, it’s not just the findom community that sees men standing behind each other and women tearing each other down. This happens in everyday life
Since we have so many witchy Dommes, we should have a safe space to share ideas, yap, and make some friends with our moots. I want to start a GC! Comment if you want to join and drop a name idea too! The most liked comment will be our coven name. 🖤
signs he's a real sub and not just kink-obsessed:
- he doesn't rush access to you
- he can serve without making it sexual
- he cares about your comfort, not just his arousal
- he understands you're not a fetish dispenser
@heymsserenity I have the same problem, especially since I'm just starting out in this world of findom and when I ask for advice, I don't get any answers, and if I do, they're "dom" accounts that are obviously AI or fake.