the sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. not just love you, but understand you,know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures; it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most
I canceled a date yesterday evening because I just wasn’t feeling it.
I had a long day, low energy, and zero social battery.
I texted him politely, saying I needed to stay in and recharge.
He replied with a simple “Got you.”
Cool. End of story… I thought.
Around 8 p.m., I heard a knock. Actually, it was more like a full-on delivery parade.
First, a guy showed up with flowers. Then another with a paper bag from a pharmacy (basic self-care stuff I’d mentioned needing weeks ago and forgotten about).
Then food from a small place near my office that I love but rarely visit.
I stood at my door like I’d accidentally subscribed to premium life support.
I finally called him like, “Why are there multiple people at my door?”
And he’s like……..
Spend time without distractions, go for long uninterrupted walks, stay mindful of your thoughts, be intentional with your actions, do one thing at a time, prepare your meals with love and allow yourself to be present within each moment,
I WATCHED MY COWORKER CRY IN HIS CAR FOR 20 MINUTES, THEN WALKED BACK IN SMILING LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED. PEOPLE REALLY BE FIGHTING SILENT BATTLES EVERY DAY
Signature scents, a handwritten letter, taking your time, eating your meals mind fully, wearing jewelry that belonged to a relative, being a generous individual, being truly confident in yourself, consideration and manners — things that are forever chic.
I don’t know which one of you gentlemen need to hear this but take more photos of your lady, especially candids that one day she’ll see and have her heart filled with love because you took a small moment to capture the woman you love — a small action that means so much.