please normalize letting people eat their lunch alone if they want and decompressing for 30 min without the pressure of being considered antisocial in the workplace.
if I choose to dismiss you from my life over something “simple” understand that it wasn't the situation; that was just your last strike. sometimes it's not what you do, it's how tired I am of you.
One thing getting older has taught me is that things in life aren’t just going to magically get better because you want them to. You literally have to curate that reality for yourself and make certain choices that will allow for “better” to exist.
Today is Thursday. Valentine’s Day is Friday. Tomorrow. The stores are COVERED in flowers, candy, candles, stuffed animals, etc. If that man shows up without a gift or trinket, he’s hates you and wants you to die. The cheapest bouquet I saw was $6.99. HE WANTS YOU TO PERISH.