@RaptorSuicune No worries, I understood what you meant.
Truthfully I'm nothing more than just mutuals with him. I did message him earlier about it, but have yet to hear anything back.
@RaptorSuicune It's extremely uncomfortable to take away that shield, but it truly does just make it harder for the other person to understand how you feel.
@RaptorSuicune The final piece of advice I have is just:
It might be best to just delete all of the name-calling and personal insults... It just gets in the way of what you really want to say, right? The unfortunate thing is that if you truly want to be heard, you need to be vulnerable.
@RaptorSuicune I'm happy I got the chance to talk to you directly.
I understand; I know what it's like to have fallen out with people I used to call friends. Truth be told, I have no interest in ever speaking to them again, but I don't wish them ill, either.
@RaptorSuicune where you just need to... let go. From what I can gather, he hasn't been *actively* attacking you directly right? It's all just been complaining on his private account?
@RaptorSuicune Trust me, I understand. Almost everybody in my own friend circles has a disability that makes this sort of thing extremely difficult.
If you did genuinely try then it is out of your hands. There does come a point-
@RaptorSuicune I'll ask the question again. Did you or did you not try telling him directly? Just a yes or no, please...
I can understand being afraid to, but people will never know how you feel unless you tell them directly.
@RaptorSuicune I do think that there is a bit of a lack of taking responsibility here. You keep saying that you moved on, but it truly does not seem like you did. I can't think of any reason for you to have checked his account if you didn't still have some lingering hatred.
@RaptorSuicune If you truly wanted to move on, you wouldn't be compiling a "callout doc" and sending it to everyone even adjacently related that you could find.
You wanted this to hurt him.