A healthy man will change if he’s hurting you.
A toxic man will say, Well, guess I’m just a piece of shit who can never do anything right.
Believe him..
Nobody apologizes anymore, they just disappear and call it moving on. Accountability died somewhere between pride and ego. People would rather lose someone than admit they were wrong. We’ve normalized walking away instead of working through it. Communication became optional, ghosting became the standard response to discomfort. Even closure isn’t guaranteed anymore, people just leave you with questions and call it self-care. Growth without honesty isn’t growth, it’s just avoidance wearing a better outfit
Fellas, if you’re obsessed with appearing dominant and alpha, you’re not dominant or alpha. You’ll just become domineering while looking fragile and weak. And nobody likes an unstable tyrant.
A narcissist will watch you struggle through illness, tragedy, loss, or the most stressful seasons of your life—and still look for opportunities to be selfish, cruel, and deliberately hurtful.
It’s the willingness to see someone in pain…and then add to it.