@Aella_Girl Couldn't choose, because they're very different. Anal orgasms can be very intense, but they tend to be short, whereas vaginal orgasms are slow building and long. At least in my experience.
I really dislike it when people ask for what 'type' of Domme I am, because frankly they feel like a trap. The moment you say you're a "gentle Domme" then people complain when you enjoy pain. And if you say you're a "Hard Domme" people scoff when you are tender.
Just a trap.
That moment when you break up with your sub whom you love deeply, because *it's complicated* and you try to watch Happiest Season for some mindless lesbian romantic comedy entertainment, then BAM - they show a Domme in an elf costume and a sub as a reindeer in the first 5 mins!
@ThankYouEmpress Paying attention to details, acts of service even when not requested, genuine show of interest in my well-being and my life in general, honesty, vulnerability, sense of humor, empathy, maturity and willingness and flexibility to work on the relationship..
@dommextra Hahaha that's funny! The cuter I find my sub, the more I want to torture him while thinking "OMG I can't believe he lets me do all of this to him!" Bliss! 😍😍😍
Servant and I keep on having flashes of very vivid memories of our encounters pop up hours after we're done. We call them "flashbacks", but after reading about it I learned those are negative and bring back memories of trauma.
In our case it's the exact opposite.