a lot of people, especially westerners, especially-especially americans, conflate considering others with being controlled & respond with defiance. it’s very weird behavior.
i would much prefer to have done loving things for people who end up hurting me rather than never do anything loving for anyone and have an empty hole in my heart.
real lovers have been embarassed by losers and kept loving all the same
my favorite part of doing this crossover is seeing so many people reconnecting with courage. you'll always be loved my dear anxious yet courageous and incredibly loyal dog
existe uma pressão para transformar toda dor em algo positivo; mas também deveríamos poder dizer: 'eu atravessei algo estranho e terrível – e isso me mudou para sempre'.
(marian keyes)
happy new year. remember that the ethic you develop about you is in the subtle, the small, the micro decisions you make about the ways you think, feel, act. there is no gesture so small that doing it consistently wont change you. you are always free to change. love you. be good
Perry Bamonte, the guitarist and keyboardist in the Cure, has died after battling a short illness over Christmas. He was 65.
The Cure confirmed Bamonte’s death on the band’s website on Friday, remembering his contributions to the group during his two stints in the band, first from 1990 through 2005, and then from 2022 until now.
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i think it’s important to be courageous in love and make yourself look like a fool at times. so many ppl are so concerned with being stoic it blocks true connection and vulnerability. be a little crazy in love actually.
"Last time the United States intervened in Mexico, they took half of our territory"
President Sheinbaum said she would not accept "support" from foreign troops, after Trump suggested he would "be proud" to bomb Mexican boats to stop "drug cartels" from coming to the US.