We can't date casually. We can't casually have sex.
There's nothing casual about being in my space. I'm a real lover. There is nothing casual about my intimacy.
There is nothing casual about my heart. Iโm not built for situationships, games, or half hearted bullshit connections.
grief after betrayal is triple grief. you are mourning the person. you are mourning who you believed they were. and you are mourning who you believed you were while you loved them.
ADHD women donโt say โI love you.โ They just aggressive-love you in 4 specific, chaotic ways:๏ฟผ
1. Penguin Pebbling
Sending you 45 TikToks, memes, and random screenshots at 3 AM with zero context. It means: โThis gave me dopamine, please consume it.โ๏ฟผ
Person: โYouโve always been so independent.โ
Autistic person: โNo. I just learned not to ask for help.โ
Person: โWhy?โ
Autistic person: โBecause needing support was treated like a character flaw.โ
dating-to-marry doesnโt mean iโm dating you to marry YOU.
iโm dating you to see if i WANT to marry you.
but thatโs a conversation nobodyโs ready for.
Dear girl
Never be in a relationship with someone thatโs okay for being silent for days, not knowing your updates for a whole day, left you hanging alone, and never care about your feelings. Your feelings always matters for someone that cares about you
cutting people off feels different now. itโs not anger, itโs grief. like dangโฆ I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me Iโm not safe with you.
You canโt teach CONSIDERATION. Either a person NATURALLY thinks about you and how something will affect your feelings, your comfort, your safety, your peace of mind, and your heart or they DONโT