falafel

🔸In search of the missing pieces of my jigsaw puzzle🔸

[Nayab✨🦋 @Storyinit]

How to give someone the benefit of the doubt without ignoring red flags:

- Assume they're trying to meet a need, protect themselves, or cope with something before you assume they're trying to hurt you
- Look for the unmet need driving their behavior
- Validate what they're feeling, even if you don't agree with what they did
- Help them let their guard down by making them feel heard instead of judged
- Pay attention to how they show up once they no longer feel the need to protect themselves
- Notice whether they own their mistakes, open up, and follow through with their actions
- Judge their character by the patterns they show after you've consistently given them the benefit of the doubt

[hdgavwgw @na_adf]

Small things matter.

1. Solat and mengadu puas2 dekat Allah. Put your trust that Allah gonna take care of everything

2. Makesure bangun mandi, buat la DIY spa dekat rumah tu. Play makeup with yourself to get back the confidence to keep going

3. Kemas bilik. Kalau ada budget lebih boleh makeover bilik. You gonna feel like a better person. Bilik yg bersepah akan serabutkan lagi ur mind

4. Buy something for yourself. Sometimes u neglected ur needs and wants sbb u terlalu fokus dekat dunia. So for once, treat urself a warm and cozy meal, pergila buat mukbang sorang2 dalam bilik tu. Or beli la skincare baru, baju baru. Something only for yourself to enjoy

5. Cari masa to connect with nature/dunia. I choose mandi sungai. Kalau u prefer jalan2 taman, or cafe or malls, go on. Kalau I stress, I akan pergi berendam dalam sungai and mengelamun sorang2. Have a little “adventure” for urself.

All of these tak perlukan cost yg besar or kena bergaul dgn orang. Sbb I know, some ppl during their darker times…prefer to isolate themselves.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

My mom told me 'Addiction is proof that you are capable of intense devotion.... You just serve a false god'
I haven’t been the same since.

[morty @findmorty]

banger

[B-R-K @b_r_khan_]

I keep on revisiting this. You might not realize the depth of what he said. In urdu poetry, there is a concept where poets view God as a lonely being, so lonely that He created free willed humans for company. Loneliness is a Godly trait & whoever enters its realm meets God there

[hdgavwgw @na_adf]

I pernah baca yang manusia memang kena kerja sebab kerja tu provide purpose dan tujuan dalam hidup.

Kalau terlalu lama tak kerja, manusia akan cari & buat kerja sendiri, just to fill the void.

And the irony is, having jobs and being busy, make us more appreciative toward mundane and small things.

[Liverpool Hardline @LFC_Hardline]

Sebagai sesama Muslim ngeliat video ini gue sedih bukan main.

Rasullah SAW bilang di HR Muslim: "Qaddarullahu wa maa sya'a fa'ala" yg artinya ini takdir Allah dan apa yg Ia kehendaki pasti terjadi.

Tapi ucapan Arda murni karena ia merasa lemah, sedih dan frustrasi bukan karena tidak rida.

Semua sudah terjadi, kita sebagai manusia harus bisa bangkit dan makin mendekatkan diri pada-Nya.

Apa momen yg bikin lo kaya gini bray? Pernah ga lo ngerasa semua usaha yg lo lakuin kaya nabrak tembok, dan apa lo lakukan?

[annie. @Cutooie]

Allah is SOOOOO attentive, He is aware of every tear you drop in secrettttttt.

[miia @miiagarro]

i'm gonna start telling men there's protein in emotional intelligence

[falafel @MF1618]

Ngl i pay money to suffer just get great views of nature

[falafel @MF1618]

Rinjani sudahku naiki 2 kali, pelamin pula bila lagi

[𝘀𝗼𝗳𝗲𝗮 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 @goodlucksofea]

kau tidur dengan segala dosa kau. tapi Allah still preserve nyawa kau sampai subuh. That’s not luck. that’s pure rahmat

[falafel @MF1618]

Good morning, i must have KO-ed

[nana 𐦍 @caramelfilm]

me listening to my crush

[nindy @tuisney]

choi lucu bgt 😭

[A @3_ishx]

Why is my family so dramatic omg

[أنينا فاريس @anina_faris]

Ustaz Azlan ada sebut bahawa anak-anak lelaki terkesan dan sensitive lebih daripada perempuan apabila mereka tidak mendapat perhatian dan kasih sayang ketika mereka dibesarkan.

Ini juga yang menjadikan ramai dikalangan lelaki mengalami krisis qawwam. Lelaki menjadi lemah dan tidak berfungsi.

Lelaki memerlukan role model dikalangan lelaki juga. Bila seorang ayah gagal menjadi role model kepada anak lelakinya, dan di sekolah pula kekurangan guru lelaki yang berkualiti untuk dijadikan contoh, akhirnya mereka membesar dengan belajar untuk menjadi lelaki daripada rakan sebaya, internet, budaya, dll.

Kerana itu ada sebahagian lelaki terpengaruh dengan red-pill. Mereka percaya untuk menjadi masculine, perlu untuk pandang rendah, seksa, hina, maki perempuan, barulah kau lelaki. Ataupun sanggup gadaikan agama dan prinsip demi nak dipandang wanita. Ini juga musibah.

Lelaki apabila rosak, kerosakannya berskala besar kerana faktor keupayaan dan kekuatannya yang melebihi wanita.

Betapa besarnya tanggungjawab menjadi ibu bapa untuk mendidik anak-anak. Didikan kita hari ini (kecil atau besar) memberi kesan yang besar dan panjang dalam kehidupan anak. Jangan ambil ringan akan ripple effects.

Kerana itu Islam memberi garis panduan, dan menekankan agama dalam pemilihan pasangan. Agama di sini bukan semata dalam ibadahnya, tetapi merangkumi sistem kehidupannya.

[falafel @MF1618]

The world cup memes tho 😅

[iAm-paquetta @guesswhoiiamm]

“Stagnation is the source of all depression. As long as you keep making progress, no matter how small, depression can’t touch you.”

[falafel @MF1618]

Hopefully my knee can recover fully plss