"Where there is a will, there is a way." True, but the other part is that WILL does not equal capacity, knowledge, and speed. It equals the ability to withstand storms, invest in the required knowledge, and be humble enough to build the capacity required. SELAH.
You spend too much time at (work , school, etc) not to derive a sense of HAPPINESS from it. The question now is what is happiness to you? Is it ability to pay bills, get a certificate, send money home, let people feel like you are working…Define it. As it is this that fuels you.
If people's 40-year-old mom can go out (with rings on, their children sometimes), still get toasted cause they look good. What makes you think they wouldn't toast your fine babe? Or your babe is UGLY? Just stay with someone whom you trust enough to say NO and respects you. SELAH