Erica Komisar said something every parent needs to hear:
The greatest gift you can give your kids isn’t perfect parenting. It’s loving your spouse, openly, warmly, with real affection, right in front of them.
Your brain is plastic, especially early on. But even if your child is five, ten, or older, it’s never too late. The sooner you fix the “injury,” the faster real healing happens, just like a sprained ankle. Small changes in how you show up can shift everything almost immediately.
Strong marriages don’t just make kids feel safe. They literally help wire their brains for security and love.
Kids don’t need perfect parents. They need parents who love each other.
What’s your honest take, how much does seeing real love between parents actually shape a child?
Crazy how avoidants can turn a secure partner into an anxiously attached person, then suddenly leave saying they can’t do this anymore while their partner is left drowning in self-doubt and abandonment trauma.
IT'S UNFAIR HOW AVOIDANTS WHO TRAUMATIZE YOU GET TO MOVE ON AND PROGRESS WITH THEIR LIFE SO CASUALLY AND CAREFREE WHILE YOU'RE HEALING AND RELEARNING ALL THE BASICS JUST TO FEEL HUMAN AGAIN.
For those of you who defended these young men and that it was just partying. Shame on you.
“One person was arrested as part of an ongoing human trafficking investigation at a rental home in Bellevue.”
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Narcissists do not feel guilty for cheating on their partners. Instead, they believe cheating is a justified solution to their unhappiness, which they blame their partners for.
Ladies, you need to be babymaxxxxing...especially later in life.
Women who had a child after the age of 40 were FOUR TIMES more likely to live to 100.
Pregnancies massively increase progesterone, the most healing female hormone.
A woman posted: “My husband cheated, apologized, and I stayed.” The comments were brutal.
“You're weak.”
“You have no self-respect.”
“You're teaching him there are no consequences.”
Then another woman replied: “I left my cheating husband and spent years struggling financially with three children.” The comments were brutal too.
“You're bitter.”
“You should have worked it out.”
“Children need their father.”
That's when I realized something. People judge women whether they stay or leave.
So maybe the real question isn't “What will people think?” Maybe the question is: “What decision can you live with?”
When you get engaged, you think you’re about to spend the rest of your life with your best friend. It’s partially true. More likely, you will be spending most of your days apart and reconvening as two very tired souls in the evening. And much of your efforts in marriage will be spent trying to steal time from your obligations to spend it with your beloved.
Wrongly considered, it can be a persistent grief. Rightly considered, it can become a grand romantic adventure. Either way, I find that I often miss my husband. And my hope for his eventual retirement has nothing at all to do with a life of ease but with a deep and simple desire for his presence.
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