@lemonvortex There's also the classic "cc their boss" but that's a last resort nuclear option. I pair that with a "I'm eager to resolve this soon because xyz"
@weebasaurusbecs@spillseshYT The fact that kids are involved changes things though. Every adult in this situation needs to endeavor to protect privacy for that reason
@lemonvortex There's nothing more purely cat than being an unapologetic asshole. We frequently have to lock my younger cat in a bedroom because he gets into my very elderly older cat's food (because everything she has he must also have 🙃)