I eat oily food, don't gym , don't follow strict diet , but my body and my skin looks like I do something special, I don't even have a single pimple, I mostly eat pap and when I eat, people keep saying, you gonna get fat but it never happens it's just genes and God's will.
As a human being, unless you have pre planned this with your partner, don't ever do something as serious as a proposal on their important day...let your partner celebrate their wins, cheer for them even...