The worst men to keep close are the ones secretly competing with you.
A jealous man can sit in your house, shake your hand, laugh with you, call you brother, then go home irritated because your life keeps working out. Your woman looks good, people fuck with you, opportunities keep finding you, and instead of being inspired by it, he starts asking himself why it ain’t him.
That’s when the energy gets weird.
He’ll congratulate you with resentment sitting underneath it. He wants access to you, but deep down he’s waiting for the day you lose everything so you can finally feel how he’s felt his whole life.
And some men don’t even realise they hate you until you stop being useful to them.
That’s why I don’t believe every man needs a big friendship group either. If you’ve always felt like the odd one out, pay attention to that shit. Sometimes you’re not really part of the group, you’re the resource inside it.
Keep jealous men away from your woman, your family, your home, your plans.
A stranger usually shows you he doesn’t like you.
A jealous friend smiles
Everybody think a comeback gotta be a new car, more money, new house or popping out looking good. Sometimes the comeback is getting YOU back. Sleeping good again,Laughing again, Not overthinking every damn thing, Not checking on people who hurt you! Sitting by yourself & actually
People typically don’t “go crazy” or have nervous breakdowns for no reason. The narrative of someone "going crazy" is often a tool used by abusers to deflect accountability and discredit their victim. What appears to be erratic behavior is usually a trauma response—a culmination of long-term psychological manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional abuse.
The victim may seem "unreasonable" or "unstable" because their nervous system is overwhelmed, often swinging between fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses. Abusers exploit this, painting the victim as the problem to maintain their control and avoid scrutiny. It's a cruel tactic that isolates the victim further and obscures the true cause of their distress. Recognizing this dynamic is crucial for understanding the reality of psychological abuse and offering genuine support.
@TheAudacity_26@ElijahRenzee That was the first time someone downed me for my appearance and it hurt me to my heart because I never tried to shoot my shot or anything. He made me feel like nothing. So yes and no, sometimes you don't have to make advances. People are mean. 😔
@TheAudacity_26@ElijahRenzee I have received negative responses from VERY attractive people, even in platonic non-sexual circumstances. I went to a party this guy I know was having. And one of the attendees was super attractive, and he made all types of remarks about me. And I never made a pass at him EVER.
@ElijahRenzee Yes, that's why I walk by faith and not by sight. You can look at someone and think they fine as hell, but after you get to know the real them. You regret the day you ever met they ass. 🔥💯
Having Cravings does not define me. Cravings are not actions therefore when I crave, it does not automatically mean that I am an addict. I also understood that my past choices to use drugs stems from a deeper part of myself - the part that I hated like...
No one talks about how being gay is 10 times harder when u are an introvert. If you are not into partying, the only option you have is dating apps,and all the guys in dating apps don’t even wanna date but just smash . Is there really any hope for introverted gays?🤷🏽
Period. I hope people who know that we aren't speaking, just stay the fuck away from me when they see me in public ever. IF and when. 😡...#TalkToThe👋🏾...#Thx🔥💯
Period. I hope people who know that we aren't speaking, just stay the fuck away from me when they see me in public ever. IF and when. 😡...#TalkToThe👋🏾...#Thx🔥💯
i’m the type to go no contact for life. once i’m done with your shit, i don’t need closure, explanations, or one last conversation. i just stop knowing you.
@walrus_whimical@fiercepatricks I second this! At first, I won't lie, I was slightly hurt and stayed single and away from men as a protective measure. But now, I couldn't see myself wanting companionship. And I'm over being sad now. I'm Happily Single tbh.❤️
USING GRINDR TAUGHT ME JUST HOW REALLY BAD THE ECONOMY IS… 😭💀
A lot of guys in my area who match with me ask me first:
“Can you host?”
Some even ask:
“Do you have a car?” 😭
At first, I thought:
“Damn, what fucking bums.” 💀
But then it kept happening in other places I visited even affluent areas, kinda poor areas, everywhere.
Most people I meet live with roommates or their parents, and at some point it hit me:
I’m not getting bums… shit is just REALLY tough for everyone right now. 😭
So… sorry for being judgmental, you guys. 🥲