zouññ

I'm going home.

[zouññ @MUcomrad]

Message to my younger self:
We took life so serious to a point that we forgot about social skills now every interaction feels like a struggle 🤦

[zouññ @MUcomrad]

Some goodbyes hurt deeply because a part of you had already imagined forever😔

[zouññ @MUcomrad]

@introducingme06 @YeAh69730094792 @JStamos6 @Jevrix9 @bluebirdia2 @Olamilions I badly wanted to say this😭😭😭😂

[zouññ @MUcomrad]

@mykeluche2025 @6looted To a point you'd go a whole day without talking?

[Nsikan @CkanJohnson]

When you sexualize a conversation early, you’re not just flirting or testing the waters. You’re fundamentally reframing what kind of interaction this is. And the other person has to decide, right then, whether they’re willing to operate inside that frame. If they were interested in you as a person, curious about your thoughts, drawn to your energy, maybe even attracted but not ready to make it the center of everything yet, you’ve just asked them to skip about seven steps.

Most people won’t tell you that you’ve done this. They’ll just drift. They’ll match your energy for a bit out of politeness, or awkwardness, or because they’re trying to figure out if they misread you. But the curiosity is gone. You’ve answered a question they weren’t asking yet.

I think this happens because we confuse attraction with urgency. Like, if you feel it, you have to do something about it immediately, or the moment dies. But real attraction doesn’t actually work like that. It builds. It breathes. It happens in the margins of normal conversation, in the way someone laughs at your joke, or the fact that they remembered something you said three days ago, or the split second where you both go quiet and it doesn’t feel empty.

There’s this idea that if someone’s really into you, they’ll match your sexual energy right away. That anything else is just performance or playing games. But that assumes everyone experiences desire on the same timeline, in the same way. Some people feel attraction as a slow burn. It starts as intrigue, then comfort, then one day they look at you differently and suddenly it’s there. For them, leading with sex isn’t authentic, it’s disorienting. It doesn’t feel like honesty. It feels like a test they didn’t know they were taking.

When you sexualize too soon, you’re collapsing all of that into a single transaction. You’re saying, “I want to know if this is going somewhere now.” And maybe it was. But now they have to wonder if you were ever interested in them, or just interested in what they represent.

The fumble isn’t that you expressed desire. It’s that you made desire the whole conversation before there was anything else to hold it up.

[non aesthetic things @PicturesFoIder]

She destroyed him..🤯

[Mindset Machine  @mindsetmachine]

Pavel Durov(Telegram CEO) reveals the shocking truth about alcohol and why he avoids it:

[Renu Kumari @RenuKumari78]

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[zouññ @MUcomrad]

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[Larry Madowo @LarryMadowo]

They have appealed to @ItalyinKenya without success. The FIDE World Cadet Chess Championships have started in Montesilvano but they're are stuck in Nairobi with their parents.

Some of these kids are chess prodigies. They're mostly from wealthy families so it's not about means

[Citizen TV Kenya @citizentvkenya]

Kilio cha wanafunzi

Baadhi ya wanafunzi wa Chuo cha Moi wakata tamaa
Wamechukua muda zaidi kukamilisha masomo yao

Migomo ya mara kwa mara imeathiri masomo yao

#NipasheWikendi
@RashidAbdalla

[Kavuli M. Bernard, FCH @BernardKavuli]

URGENT:

Message to all POLICE officers. KINDLY share widely iwafikie before 8/8/24. Let them be INFORMED accordingly!

[Mary Kathomi @MaryK2022]

This Kenyans are still missing

[Dex @smh__w]

Kenyans on X should not see this 🥺https://t.co/5ZNpdY7PNf

[Citizen TV Kenya @citizentvkenya]

Bangladesh wakes to torched government buildings as 100 police officers injured in protests https://t.co/LgZrYJNoXf

[The Kenyan Vigilante @KenyanSays]

Weuh We need prayers as a nation..Kwisha sisi😅😅😅😅😅

[Marto🇰🇪 @marto254_]

Ndovu ni kuu ametoka version yake ya Anguka Nayo, how is it

[Muli || The Traveller 🇰🇪🇹🇿🇺🇬🇷🇼 @muli_brian_]

Okay okay, never knew this about twerking 🤔�

[𝐒𝐞𝐢𝐩𝐓𝐨𝐩 @Seip_Top]

Ebu skizeni huyu mama vizuuri...Then ka unaamini kitu anasema u reply kwa comments na #RutoMustGo