All you gotta do is get so deviously betrayed and bamboozled one time in your life of purity to change the entire trajectory of your relationships to any human ever
To do list for the week:
- judge a book by its cover
- believe that all that glitters is gold
- be a choosy begger
- gain without pain
- leap before looking
- count my chickens before they hatch
- put all my eggs in one basket
When you go into society, leave behind your own ideas and values, and put on the mask that is most appropriate for the group in which you find yourself.
I cannot help but feel, after reading Jung, Nietzsche, Dostoyevsky, Camus, Meister Eckhart, Aldous Huxley, Ram Dass, Krishnamurti, that they all are saying essentially the same thing: the goal is individual responsibility; the goal is a radical self-maxxing.
Never quit your job for a man. Never EVER deplete your savings for a man. Never EVER EVER move somewhere JUST for a man. I will scream this from the mountaintops. There needs to be something in it for you that is more than just him.