I’m at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, add value in my life, prioritize me and add peace to my life.
Ukusaba ihlazo is the best thing you can ever do as a woman. Uyisabe nje into
ezokuhlaza. Ungaqedi isthunzi sakho ngezinto ezingathi shu. Be a woman with dignity. Uzihloniphe it's very important.
you cannot break a woman who has survived family issues, financial struggles, stress, heartbreak, and betrayal, yet still chose not to give up.
women like us don't fall easily. we rebuild ourselves again and again.
You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say
By all means, have Principles and Standards.
You cannot spend years breaking a child's spirit and then expect a few words in adulthood to repair what took years to destroy. You cannot teach a child to fear your footsteps, your voice, your moods, and your anger, then expect them to see you as a source of comfort later in life.
It’s so attractive when people apologise for responding late. or when they keep you in the loop so you don’t start overthinking. the skill of communication is very attractive. basic consideration these days, it stands out cause so many people just disappear and leave you guessing
bro to bro: if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. if you like fitness girls, get yourself a fit girl. you are entitled to your own preferences.
but what you are not going to do bro, is date a girl who is not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.
Stop letting their limitations control you. If they're emotionally unavailable, keep it transactional. If they're argumentative, agree playfully and walk away. Stop pouring into voids. Stop fighting to be understood. Meet people where they are, not where you wish they'd be.