I learned you simply cannot be friends with ppl you have more than. And NO, not materialistic things. But, more morals, more values, more AURA…. Ppl will hate you for sh!t money can’t buy! You literally have to surround yourself with your kind.
Some people aren't sorry for what they did. They’re uncomfortable that you know who they really are. They don’t regret the betrayal; they regret the exposure.
This is exactly why you’ll find grown men glorifying their mothers’ sacrifices while having very little understanding of what those sacrifices actually cost them. I remember my aunt once telling me that leaving her job was one of the worst decisions she ever made yet her
Just a friendly reminder. Train yourself not to become too emotionally attached to anyone because when they stop communicating or stop talking to you, you might not recover from it. Remember, people wake up with different feelings everyday. That’s why it’s important to stay grounded and not rely too much on anyone for your happiness. Protect your peace.
in the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girls asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.
Sometimes as an adult you have to decide "this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way" and stand on it. Be it family, a relationship or a friendship.
When I leave people alone, I genuinely think I’m giving them what they want. It’s no way you did what you did & expected me to believe you still wanted me around.
The obsession with wanting people to regret losing you is insane. You’re not that special. People lose people every day and keep living. Heal from the ego that needs to be missed, chased, or mourned to feel valuable. Your job is not to become somebody’s punishment. Your job is to grow, move on, and build a life so full that their regret is no longer your concern.
The Deputy Minister in The Presidency, Nonceba Mhlauli in partnership with the Al Imdaad Foundation, will on Thursday, 21 May 2026, lead a disaster relief programme in Vredenburg.
During the visit, Deputy Minister Mhlauli will hand over relief packages and essential supplies to affected residents.