“Bila lelaki buat benda basic macam tolong jaga anak, terus dipuji ‘best husband’. Hello, that’s bare minimum as a father.”
Tbh saya risau dengan benda ini. Adakah "bare minimum" tak layak dapat ucapan terima kasih atau pujian?
Biasakan puji/terima kasih for small things.
"Terima kasih abang belanja makan"
"Terima kasih abang beli barang rumah"
"Terima kasih sayang jagakan anak"
"Terima kasih sayang buatkan air teh"
"Terima kasih kejut saya"
Nanti dengan anak pun terbiasa.
"Terima kasih Asma' kemas mainan"
"Bagusnya Asma' main dengan adik"
Puji efforts/good behavior can increase the likelihood to the behavior reoccur again. Plus, org yg diucap terima kasih rasa dihargai. Orang yang cakap terima kasih mencambah rasa syukur dalam diri.
"A person who is appreciated will do more than expected"
Kadang orang terlepas pandang. Small things MATTER
Only those who arrived post Wenger will turn on the club, abuse the badge, and question the manager when it gets hard.
Some of us have lived this, stayed through every collapse and pain. We don’t flinch, we don’t fold, and we don’t flip.
With the club and gaffer. Until the end.