Getting cheated on is actually traumatizing idk why y’all try to downplay betrayal. The feeling you get when you find out and the aftermath is the worst. I literally feel like I’m gonna go to jail.
Everybody talks about cutting people off but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision knowing it’s not what you wanted but what was necessary for your well-being
u needed to be broke, so you could learn how to budget. u needed to be treated bad, so u could appreciate being treated great. u needed to have jobs u hated, so that u can work hard to do what u love. u had to stray from God, so u could understand that’s there’s nothing better
You want a relationship to work but you have to be willing to learn how a person needs to be loved. You need to know why they are the way they are... the history not just the easy stuff but the hard things also.
A soulmate is not going to know how to automatically handle you. BUT…A soulmate is going to learn and grow with you through your flaws and insecurities. A soulmate will choose to stay when things get tough. They will look for solutions & communicate instead of running & quitting
I just wanna be better overall. Upgrade my knowledge, my lifestyle, how I handle people & situations. Just have complete self control over my life & not let any negativity around me.
I realized people never loved me for me.. It was just the way I showed up for them, the way I held them down & had their back, the way I came thru when everyone else didn’t, the way I was always the stable one, the way my mindset stimulated theirs, the way I looked pass their