We are all in search of the perfect life in some form.
It's closer than you think.
But in a different version.
I'm going to share some discoveries I've made and encourage you to chime in with your thoughts.
There is such a thing as a perfect life where:
1. The air we breathe is free
2. We can count our blessings
3. Value the little things in life
4. A life that has less stress
5. A life that flows
All of the above are obtainable with your mindset only seeing opportunity.
We are by nature fighting against all of the natural laws of life.
Especially in this era of technology racing at the speed of light.
I want you to read further with an open mind.
We are conditioned by western society to only seek the ultimate in life's pleasures.
It's also part of being on social media and only seeking the make believe.
We lose connection to what's real in life on one level to ourselves.
Seeking the superficial may not curb our thirst or hunger.
What it can do is set ourselves up for further dissolution with life.
There is a piece deep inside you that's authentic called your inner world.
That's the place only you know.
You might hide it from the world.
It's your choice to show who you really are.
In your inner world when you connect, it has your values of what is important to you.
The answers to what you're searching for and what truly makes you happy.
Everything external to you is telling you what you should be yearning for.
Society has brainwashed us into wanting material luxury.
All of your social media accounts are showing a make-believe lifestyle of people that you don't even know.
What I've been learning about lately is the real set of values we hold has to be nurtured.
Our true values are connected to our driving force.
I'm not saying to throw away material possessions.
Instead, open yourself up to be still and the solitude within you.
Take time in solitude and journal.
Ask yourself questions to start the search for โwhat is your idea of the perfect life.โ
It might surprise you.
Whether you write this down or go for a walk in nature and think deeply when was a time you were truly happy?
Or, what makes you happy.
Get specific about the moments that you truly value.
This is a deep journey to take on your own terms.
I've done this at different times in my life and had completely different results.
I almost forgot about this exercise as in life busy and I can find myself going through the motions without questions.
These are a few actions to consider in no particular order:
1. Get some Solitude time
2. Ask yourself specific questions about your values and joy.
3. Don't rush this process.
4. Journal about the exercise if it's helpful.
5. Reframe your thoughts to align with your findings of what perfect looks like in your life.
6. Realize most of the changes are mindset to achieve harmony.
Once we've identified the concept of whatโs our idea of the perfect life, create a vision and create a vision board.
ACTION ITEMS FOR VISION
Part 1: write out what your vision looks like for your perfect life.
Define your vision clearly.
Close your eyes and take some deep breaths to focus.
~ What will make you happy?
~ If you need more information, start a research notebook.
~ Use this Vision to break down actions in order to get to the vision.
~ Break down those actions further to bite size tasks.
~ Add to your schedule time each day to mark off these tasks.
Part 2: create a Vision Board to motivate you towards achieving your goal.
~ Create visuals in lots of color and detail.
~ Include lifestyle aspects of travel, favorite foods, what your backyard would look like, a perfect morning on the weekend eating breakfast. (get creative)
~ Include the items that you think about during your Vision exercise.
Include details of what that life would look like with visuals and color.
Put this board somewhere you can look at each day.
This is not about the glossiest Vision Board as someone's perfect life could be living on a property growing vegetables or writing and living off grid.
This exercise is to tame the external frantic search and find calm and peace on a focused path.
There is something very calming about knowing your life's direction and planning towards it as opposed to following along with your current situation and accepting that's all.
The part that's going to impact you will be to see how things are tracking.
Remember a lot of people in the world use this practice of having a Vision.
Vision provides a roadmap that propels your life in a direction.
The idea here is to reconnect to you and what is really important.
Ignore what society is selling you.
What is your idea of the perfect life?
Love to know your thoughts on this post.
Love, Light & Blessings๐โจ๐๐ฝ
Sending you all lots of positivity to shine your energy brightly.
Be your brightest self today.
Light up others along the way.
May you receive Love, Light and Blessings ๐
Congratulations you've arrived at 2025 and the future is now!
This is the moment to choose when everything will change in your life.
Here are positive insights to motivate your 2025 actions.
BOOKMARK and refer back this year to keep driving your success.
What you decide deeply inside for this year is what will be created.
You don't have to take time to be clear with your goals just start.
If we don't start to move on our dreams we risk not obtaining all the wonderful things we deserve.
Move forward one step at a time.
Understand you don't have to have all the answers in order to start.
Review your "WHY"?
Remember your why is not permanent and needs to be revisited.
Have you redefined your WHY?
Have you made your WHY as clear as possible?
When your WHY is strong it builds a foundation to start moving towards actions.
Don't even settle for playing small while resetting your WHY.
Allow yourself to dream as big as possible.
Journal for a few minutes to seek clarity about your WHY and actionable steps.
You are here in life to GROW.
You can't grow if you don't aim big.
When you hold a big DREAM in your heart, you carry that all day into every facet of your life.
A dream not only MOTIVATES you but inspires others around you as your energy is exciting.
CREATE a vision for the life that will be the reason to get up in the morning.
FOCUS on your vision and develop the required steps with a plan.
TRUST is big part of the process as you have to find the courage within you.
SELF-CARE is your best friend at every stage of this year ahead.
When you take care of yourself you have the fuel to push forward on this journey.
Eliminate all doubts and instead put your focus and determination towards the vision.
Show up for yourself every single day with no excuses remembering your goals.
Be RELENTLESS with achieving what you want.
You will receive more INSIGHTS to refine what paths to take when you invest in action.
Keep LEARNING from roadblocks and tweak direction accordingly.
If you feel DISCOMFORT at any part of your journey, you're on track.
ACCOUNTABILITY will ultimately be your most valuable resource.
Set your own standards and always appreciate your progress.
Mark off all of your small tasks and big actions to REFLECT and watch how far you've travelled.
You are RESILIENT when you accept this will not be easy but worth every moment.
Maintain full focus on your VISION even when you meet with failure.
FAILURE is an opportunity to learn more and reframe in order to meet your goals.
Enjoy the process of your being on the path for your dreams and goals.
Always give yourself GRACE as you will need to be adaptable and keep moving forward.
Keep making the choice of a positive MINDSET even during through challenges.
Remind yourself all setbacks are temporary and will be resolved.
Choose your tribe carefully and know who you can CONNECT with just for the positive vibrations.
With a POSITIVE outlook the experience on your path will be a fuel towards resilience.
Hold onto the HOPE of better things to come for your life and loved ones to keep you persistent.
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF to see how life will transform before your eyes.
When we have self-belief we trust ourself beyond the obstacles and keep going.
Find your BALANCE with gratitude.
GRATITUDE will keep you grounded but always embrace the discomfort in your pursuit of the vision.
See your vision with CLARITY as if you're looking at a clear target and never lose sight.
I support your DREAMS X family!
Love, Light & Blessings๐โจ๐๐ฝ