One thing my grandma taught me is that my 20s are NOT for sticking stuff out with men — LEAVE!
He don’t plan dates, open doors, and spoil you how you want and you’ve communicated it multiple times?
LEAVE!
He minimizes your feelings and doesn’t prioritize you?
LEAVE!
Be very patient with yourself. Keep reminding yourself that things are working out for you. What doesn’t make sense now will soon bring you clarity and peace. You’ll understand why certain things happened a certain way. It’s all in divine timing. Stay positive about everything.
So glad that God don’t just up and leave because He ain’t feeling me anymore.. or because I made a mistake.. or because I’m still healing. I’m so glad that God walks with me in spite of my trauma +
sometimes a healthy relationship requires the people in it to teach the other how to love them properly. we all come from such different upbringings that what we may deem a sufficient love expression may not be that for the person receiving it from us.