Women prefer “I want you to come” vs. “If you want to come” because the ‘If you want’ often feels like “That wasn’t my plan initially but since you insisted, why not.” And It (can) feel like you’re intruding. it’s not hard to grasp why folks need that clarity.
“iF yOu SuPpOrT ______ uNfRiEnD mE” y’all are ridiculous. y’all are the reason our country is so divided. everyone has the right to vote for who they want and if you’re willing to not be my friend because of my political views you weren’t a real friend anyways.
I want ALL my friends to know that if you are ever in a situation like this please do not hesitate to come to me. I will drop everything to get you out of a bad situation.