@mb_2468 I've been doing that also. My this year my youngest requested a party and begged me for one even when I gave her other options. It just breaks my heart ππ
Imagine how cared for and loved my 4 y/o would feel if more than 3 family members and 1 friend cared enough to show up for her birthday. Either way I'll make up for it. This is why I no longer do parties. Not abt gifts but some friends and family havent seen her in years. π
You ever find a good book and think "I'll just read a few pages" then realize at it's 1:30am and you finished the whole thing and now you're over stimulated and have to work in 4 hours? Same. π―π
Is it bad that my own toddlers are my form of free birth control π€£π€£π€£ i love them to death but oh my.... i can't do it again π€£π they torture me π₯²
Don't prioritize people who aren't prioritizing you. π completely starting over, finding new friends and new support and surrounding myself with love. πβ₯οΈ