my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.
People are like why do you speak about what a fucked up person your dad is now why didn’t you say anything back then? Because bitch my life woulda been hell even more, I also thought it was normal and my parents never wanted anyone to what was going on behind closed doors🤦🏻♀️
I thinks it’s weird to be in your 50s lying about your kids. What’re you afraid of bro?if I said something or did something fucked up I would say no problem. Idgaf. But he will lie lie lie. You can’t take accountability so you switch up the story to make you a victim😂😂
Once you realize that you’re free from your narcissist parent and you don’t EVER have to deal with that again it’s so empowering like now I’m an adult not a child and I can speak on all the fucked up shit you did and there’s not a single thing to stop me.
my therapist told me the only way to control your emotions is to show them. you can’t control sadness you never show. then your sadness turns to anger, hostility, bitterness and resentment. and you have officially created a monster.
My own “dad” can’t handle the fact that I’m my own person with a real brain so he tries to call me and my brothers brainwashed😂my emotional maturity goes so far beyond his own that it’s intimidating to him so he has to try and discredit me somehow🤷🏻♀️