When we realize how loved we are by God, we don't have to live in fear of what others think of us. It's not the determining factor of whether we are loved or not. We don't have to prove anything, we are already loved as we are.
do not teach a man how to be your man. do not ask him to show you off. do not ask him to text you more, do not ask him to care abt you, do not him to bring you random flowers, do not ask him to plan dates. the right one will know exactly what to do and when to do it.