You either have to believe in miracles /magic or be irrationally optimistic that everything is working together your greatest good.
Otherwise, you’ll unnecessarily be playing life on hard mode...
Be so confident in who you are that you're wiling to eat alone, sleep alone, do the inner healing work, and flourish without approval. And whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, remind yourself how far you've come. You're always stronger than you think you are.