For a RELATIONSHIP to really work, you gotta understand this: You and your partner are TWO different people, with two different pasts, trying to build ONE future. You didn't grow up the same, you won't always think the same, and that's okay. What matters is HOW you handle it. Communicate without turning everything into an argument. Listen even when you're frustrated. Stop keeping score and start choosing growth. Because every disagreement shouldn't create distance. It should build understanding
This may sound a lil woowoo but I firmly believe that your resources will be impacted if you are surrounded by people who do not like you!! Especially if you’re an overgiver.
Five years ago on this day, I received a call from my boyfriend’s mother telling me that her son had been involved in a car accident and died on the spot💔To make a long story short, she asked me not to attend his funeral because we weren’t married🙂↔️🙂↔️
Today I met her son at the mall with his wife and twins😭😭😭😭
My therapist once told me: Imagine being bitten by a snake and, instead of treating the bite, you waste time chasing the snake to understand why it bit you and prove you didn't deserve it.