My family has always been super into Christmas & when I was little I’d fantasize about the decorations I would have when I grew up as my mom would get supplies to make wreaths the sell. Now as an adult I have a 3ft tree I keep decorated so I can just move it in & out of my attic.
I promise you, you gotta train your boundaries to be stronger than your soft heart and your mind to be stronger than your feelings because whatever disrespect you tolerate will continue. Removing yourself from any table where respect is no longer being served is self-care.
Sometimes people will project their own lack onto you. People who lack the emotional intelligence to understand you will call you sensitive. People who lack communication skills will say you're trying to argue. People who are emotionally unavailable will invalidate your feelings.
You know what’s annoying nowadays about society? If you have a hobby you’re supposed to not only monetize it but also become a visual producer of the process of that hobby.
If I wrote down all my wants and desires out of a partner it’d be my boyfriend, the moment I saw him the first time something went off in my brain that that was it.
“I wonder if my boyfriend thinks about me all the time too”
My man bought me a case of my favorite candy for Black Friday and is on his way home with glazed donuts and supper.
Idk how people work 5 or 6 days a week. I need one day of doing nothing, one day of doing things I enjoy, one day of cleaning, and one day of socializing, 3 days for work.
The best part about my partner being old(ish) is he barely uses social media so he’s definitely not liking other girl’s pictures, the downside is he doesn’t find the humor in memes