You have got to love and let love in as many times as possible. The fear of potential hurt should not keep you from experiencing one of the most exhilarating things this terrible life has to offer.
A “good woman” (or partner) isn’t some rare, once in a lifetime event that disappears forever if you mess up.
There are many good people out there. What’s rare is alignment at the right time, maturity, and effort from both sides.
That said, there is a truth hidden in it:
When you meet someone who genuinely fits you in values, character, peace of mind, it’s worth being intentional and not careless with it.