Even if you marry a church girl, if she wants to cheat, she will cheat, even with a fellow brother.
Loyalty shouldn’t be associated with who a person is or what they do for a living. Unemployed women cheat, employed women cheat, partygoers cheat, churchgoers cheat.
Before you pay lobolo, set a date to the home office. Go sign an Out Of Community of Property with accrual. This means everything you make in the marriage is both yours and will be shared equally. Whether through divorce or death. Secondly, before lobolo, draw up Wills with a financial advisor.
Churches encourage people to marry in community of property however the financial sector has found a loophole in that contract. Your wife’s debt and future debt will be yours too. If they die owing R1 000 000, you now owe R1 000 000. The mother of your husband’s first child can now take you to maintenance court.
You’re in business. Your family and their future are supposed to be protected. COP marriages leaves them vulnerable.