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What it means for a woman dating or married to narcissist who cheats.
Being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel confusing and emotionally draining. Here’s how it often shows up:
💔 1. Emotional rollercoaster
At the beginning, everything may feel perfect (love bombing). Later:
You feel criticized, ignored, or not “enough”
Affection becomes inconsistent
🧠 2. You start doubting yourself
They may twist situations or deny things they said or did (gaslighting), making you:
Question your memory
Feel like you're “too sensitive” or “crazy”
🪞 3. Your needs don’t matter
Your feelings are minimized or dismissed
The relationship revolves around them
You may feel invisible or emotionally alone
🔒 4. Control and isolation
They may try to control who you see or what you do
Subtle or obvious attempts to isolate you from friends/family
😞 5. Loss of self-worth
Over time, many women:
Feel drained and emotionally exhausted
Lose confidence
Feel stuck or dependent
When a man with strong narcissism cheats, it’s usually not just about attraction—it’s about ego, control, and validation.
💔 Why he cheats
A narcissistic partner may cheat because:
He constantly needs attention and admiration from multiple women
He feels entitled (“I deserve this”)
He seeks excitement or validation, even if the relationship is stable
He lacks empathy, so your pain doesn’t fully register
🧠 How he behaves after cheating
This is where it becomes especially damaging:
Denies or lies even when there’s evidence
Blames you (“You pushed me to it”)
Minimizes it (“It meant nothing”)
Gaslights you—making you question reality
May apologize… then repeat the behavior
What it does to a woman
Being cheated on by a narcissist often leaves deeper scars than the cheating itself:
You start questioning your worth (“Why wasn’t I enough?”)
You feel emotionally unstable—confused, hurt, and attached at the same time
You may stay hoping he will change, especially after apologies or “good phases”
You feel stuck in a cycle of pain → hope → disappointment
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RRM contracts from 2019 to 2023 were awarded without open tenders, using a “nearest or adjacent contractor” approach. Contracts worth about R274 million were awarded without proper Supply Chain Management involvement while related litigation was ongoing.
Contracts which expired on 30 November 2025 were unlawfully extended despite National Treasury reportedly advising that expired contracts cannot be extended.
Serious questions needs to be asked about governance and record keeping within SANRAL. These include the existence of two board memoranda carrying the same date and purportedly bearing the same approval, yet reflecting different contract values and contractor lists.
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