@Lush_Beauty1 But it's not that the man is non existent, it mostly happens when a family lost a male figure at a young age, died without a partner, an only-son or child, last born and through miscarriage (akerr we give those who past on names and acknowledge them). My grandmother did this
@BlackLckd@_Thuba_K_ It's actually the opposite of "fuck" like "what the heck or what the fuck" it's one of the South African informal English expressions. I think she heard it from Tyla and went with it