I find it endlessly amusing when men expect a level of domestic labour from me that I don't even do for myself. If I haven't built my own life around cooking every single day, what exactly makes you think you'll be the exception?
My favorite line from Atomic Habits has been living in my head rent-free:
“It doesn’t make sense to continue wanting something if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don’t want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment.”
💔 Police have confirmed that the human remains discovered near a bridge on Bophuthatswana Road in Boitekong are those of 18-year-old Olebogeng Felicia Tagote, who was reported missing on 24 May after leaving school following extra classes.
SAPS is investigating a case of murder and rape. A family member identified the remains at the scene.
Condolences to her family and loved ones. Rest in peace, Olebogeng. 🕊️💔
If this appears on Your Timeline kindly Repost! Entle Asiphe Mkhala (9) has been missing since 14th May 2026. Entle returned home from school and later went out to play, but she never came back. Anyone with information kindly contact 082 390 1749 or the nearest Police Station!
2 year old toddler Omphile Sethole, was abducted from her bed while sleeping by someone who broke into her family's home in Tinmyne, Limpopo
The kidnappers broke in but didn't take any valuable objects, they only took the child
Today is the 3rd day she is missing.
Mzansi, please help us find her
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HE KILLED A NURSE IN SOSHANGUVE AND PLACED HER BODY IN A FREEZER.
KILLED A GIRL IN DRIZIEK
MAKE HIM TREND
Please Retweet till he is found
Before he kills again
This is Dr. Phiwe Jetro Jafta, (42) from Eastern Cape, Dr Phiwe raped a 22yrs old woman at his Komani surgery after she donated clothes to his foundation for children & to show appreciation Dr Phiwe offered a free full body examination & thats when he raped her.
Buhlebenkosi Selepe, 20, was shot to death in Standerton, Sakhile, on 31 May 2025.
It is alleged that Buhlebenkosi was molested before she was shot. Her lifeless body was found the next morning, on 1 June, next to a graveyard.
Buhlebenkosi leaves behind her child and her family. No arrests have been made yet. We are heartbroken over the loss of such a beautiful soul. Another little sister was murdered. How many more until we declare GBV and femicide a National Disaster? #WomenForChange #SayHerName #UnburyTheTruth #EnoughSaid #AmINext
5,578 women were murdered in just one year!
This is not just a statistic - it’s a crisis. South Africa’s women and children are under attack, yet our government does not act with urgency!
Sign our petition NOW to demand that GBVF be declared a National Disaster: https://t.co/ce1gUuxZaS
And we are taking this fight further! On 11 April 2025, we are handing over our petition at the Union Buildings to demand urgent action from the government. Join us!
Date: Friday, 11 April 2025
Time: 3pm - 7pm
Location: Union Buildings, Pretoria
Let's bring Eva home 💜
Eva Tembo, 6, was last seen with her mother’s employer, Carlos Rebelo, in Kensington on 1 July 2024. He was supposed to return Eva to her mother in contravention of a court order, but he never returned the girl. Carlos is driving an older model gold Mercedes Benz, HBN940GP. His house is locked, and his cell phone is switched off.
Any information, please contact: 0761114575 Please share wide and far. #missingchild #womenforchange #AmberAlert