i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you
I do not play about people telling my business. I don’t care if you told someone I have a trip coming up or what I ate for breakfast! I won’t tell you anything else. I don’t like a person who talk to much about what I got going on