Mike Cassidy

I write about finding meaning as a 40+ man.

Father | Creative | Health Professional.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

@TateTheTalisman About 3 fiddy.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

Fear is the combination of the unknown and what is potentially threatening.

A strange sound in the night.

The vastness of space.

Walking down a dark wooded path.

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Bright light instantly turns fear into
relief

or awe

or even boredom.

-> Light is understanding 💡

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

The more serious someone takes life, the more serious it gets.

And the more painful it gets.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

I fucking love you.

The most powerful phrase in the English Language.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

Wisdom just means putting things in context.

Experience you gives you a broader perspective.

A glimpse of the bigger picture.

You're less reactive.
The noise doesn't matter..
But what's important, does.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

So this group is to support and empower guys who are going through it.

It's confidential, and aimed at giving you the tools to deal with the situation, and come out stronger.

⏩ If there is a particular topic you would like covered, please message me before the event.

Mike

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

"Survive & Thrive: Men's Divorce and Wellbeing Group"

Date: Wed, 24 Jul, 19:30
Location: Phoenix Health Hub, Uckfield, UK

https://t.co/gTLjoNu5ju

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

Even though most of us won't go that far, it's a powerful statistic that shows the impact that divorce has on a man's mental health.

No matter how much we hear that 'Men should talk more', we don't.

Because we don't want to be a burden. And because few people really understand

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

@Be1rreplaceable It costs nothing to be polite and considerate, but can have a big impact on people.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

@euphoticuk Yes, at being apples.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

Women are naturally better at looking after small children.

Am I wrong?

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

Turns out, if you go to the bathroom and forget to bring your phone...

the whole process actually only takes a couple of minutes.

(Follow me for more inspiring life hacks!)

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

Trap bar deadlifts are my favourite.

Something primal about lifting heavy sh*t 💪

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

That's why divorce hits a man so hard.

He's being rejected from his family. The people it's his role to provide for and protect.

Meaning, purpose and value all stripped away. They don't need him.

And sometimes you know deep down you could have done more. Which hurts the most.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

You can make your work more meaningful by getting better at it, or some element of it.

Progress and improvement bring meaning by themselves, even if you're not where you want to be yet.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

@EscapeWithRed I'd say respect has just the right amount of fear baked into it.

Acknowledgement of competence or authority.

[Mike Cassidy @ManFindsMeaning]

The future will not be easier than the present.

Today is always the best day to start doing things better.