"Let's put the kids to bed early tonight" sounds like a good plan until you're just spending that whole time + the normal amount of time trying to get the kids to go to bed.
@carolinejsumlin No. Your soul wonβt be better for it. So much teen drug use and sex. Like, thatβs the story. I turned off the first episode and Iβm not βprudishβ about those things.
@achzkris Your soft, open, generous heart is a beautiful gift to the world. Not easy. Not always welcomed. But we are better because of it. I am better because of it.
I see this modeled so beautifully by my husband. I'm not that good at it. I like being right.
@CoreyHolmes, he's the real deal. He values relationship over being right. He values healing and well-being over his own way. Empathy over pride. And he's really cute too.
You know what's really difficult?
Taking responsibility for your mistakes, apologizing, making it right, and correcting the behavior moving forward.
A thing you did, a thing you let happen, or a wrong belief you've held.
But that's growth. Doubling down is death.