God invites people of different temperaments into His Kingdom. What we must strive for at every moment is to remain humble and modest, remembering that we are called not merely to belong to this Kingdom, but to labour in it.
No, you won't die. Healing is on the wings of time. Give yourself grace and take each day as it comes. One day, you'll look at this in hindsight, remember how you felt, and probably just laugh. Trust that you will laugh, because all of us laugh ๐
Matthew 18:21-22
"......'Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?'
Jesus answered, 'I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times [or seventy times seven].'"
We are called to forgive one another all the time.
It has become normal to choose spouses based primarily on how they look. Choosing a spouse with the aesthetics of social media at the back of your mind is diabolical.
Give urself the chance to experience people with disabilities, the "5s", "3s"... We are all children of God
I Almost Missed My Wife Because She Was Chubby โ Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Reveals, Warns Singles Against Choosing Spouses Based on Physical Appearance
Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has advised intending couples not to base their choice of a spouse solely on physical appearance, stressing that marriage can change how people view their preferences.
Speaking about his own experience, the cleric said he almost missed marrying his wife because he initially considered her body size a concern.
He said, โWhen I met her, I liked everything about her,smart, spiritual, work, friends, everything, I liked everything. My only concern was that I felt she was a bit plump, she was a bit chubby.โ
According to him, his preference for slim women was influenced by what he had seen in movies, adverts and beauty pageants rather than actual experience.
โI like slim girls, I like slim girls. Thatโs what I felt. Where did I get it from? Iโve just been seeing it everywhere,in movies, in adverts, in beauty pageants,โ he said.
Okonkwo explained that he later realised that people who have never been married may have unrealistic expectations about what they want in a spouse.
โYou think you will not like a woman that is not slim, have you married one before? So, itโs speculation,โ he stated.
He added that after years of marriage, his wifeโs character had become more important to him than her physical appearance.
โBecause when you marry somebody, especially for long term, their behavior will be more important than their shape,โ he said.
The pastor further warned men against choosing a wife solely because she fits a particular physical preference, arguing that appearance alone does not determine the quality of a marriage.
He said, โThat slim girl you are talking about, if sheโs wicked, you will not have s+x with her for six months. There are men that are so provoked by their wives, they canโt get an erยฃction to sleep with her.โ
Okonkwo urged singles to seek advice from people with actual marriage experience rather than relying solely on assumptions about their spec.
Relationships/friendships are hard but necessary.
Isolation may protect you from some pain, but it can also prevent you from experiencing the relationships God intends for you.
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