Imagine losing access to my laugh, my weird questions, my uplifting reminders, the way I see life, the depth of my conversations, my spark and most of all, my love and presence.
all relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. repeated behavior isn’t a mistake, it’s a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change.
If you're looking for closure, let me tell you this: The lack of respect was the closure. The lack of an apology was the closure. The lack of care, accountability and honesty. That was the closure.
Not to be vulnerable, but I don’t particularly enjoy living right now but have no choice other than to stay optimistic and keep going because what else can I do
Giving “silent treatment” to someone you actually plan to speak to again is a form of abuse and emotional manipulation.
learn to open your mouth and speak. if you need space let them know! it’s that simple