Seeing this comment section I have learnt:
Indian men logic is if you are saying yes to a marriage especially an arranged marriage, and need some time to first get to know each other, develop feelings and then proceed to physical intimacy. You are a freeloader, you can't get money, food from husband or his family because you are not giving your body.
A woman who says yes to marriage should except to have sex, wrecked and ruined and satisfy a man's lust from the first night, else Indian men say their extra marital affair is right, taking divorce is right.
So, from the first night even in an arrnaged marriage where yoh really don't know each other well, and need time to feel comfortable, they own your body and consent from the first night cuz you said yes to marriage.
Sharing life together, building a home, emotional moments, proceeding to intimacy and having kids yeh sab kya hota hai?
Marriage only means SEX SEX SEX FROM DAY ONE.
The comment section is so scary, now I don't even want to interact with any stranger men online or offline. Who knows they could be having one such account on X and making such comments.
My dear men, if you don't want to be falsely accused of sexual harassment, stay at home. Don't come out where women are there. Don't go out late in the night so women can accuse you of SA or rape. Don't talk to women. Don't text us. Don't marry us.
You're asking for it.
breaking down telling my mother im tired of studying and she said “chhod do padhai, kisi ke ghar chali jao shaadi karke aur unki kaam waali ban jao” im breaking down some more