Another form of low self esteem is definitely being too available to people who have shown you countless times that they lack a sense of urgency and enthusiasm towards you. I know its hard but regulate your nervous system to calm down.
Please INVEST IN YOUR LOOKS, get the facial, buy these shoes, the jewelry, get your hair and nails done. You look better, you feel better, you do better, people treat you better, life gets better.
After a certain age, it is literally your responsibility, no one's else, to teach yourself the things you were deprived of, to unlearn and let go of all the toxic habits, because flaunting anger issues, being emotionally unavailable, and not being able to communicate your feelings seems like nothing more than an excuse. Life is unfair to everyone in various ways, a little to some, a lot to others. You cannot spend your whole life whining and complaining about how cruel it was to you; the trauma inflicted upon you cannot be justified, but it is your duty to heal, grow, and feel safe in your mind.
-vesper
Major cheat code for life: Knowing when something is not yours to fix. Their mood. Their choices. Their drama. Love people, support people, but stop carrying what was never yours to hold.
DIAMOND LEAGUE RECORD!!!
Collen Kebinatshipi 🇧🇼 stormed to an emphatic win in the men's 400m at the Paris Diamond League, storming to a Diamond League Record of 43.54s!
He was just 0.01s off his National Record.
A really strong Zakithi Nene 🇿🇦 was 2nd in 43.89s, followed by Chris Bailey 🇺🇸 in a PB of 44.06s.
I've never seen a nation fight so hard to violate children. Sexual conduct by children with children is not criminalized. It cannot be your reason Banna ke Lona to ask for a reduction on the age of majority.
The Commissioner of Police is asking for permission to make children more vulnerable just to make her job easier. Surging cases should tell the Commissioner that , her policing and the system that she is part of, are failing children and not wading off sexual abuse of children.
Right now the comments on social media by Batswana men, should be an indication to the Commissioner of Police how unsafe children are, and how prepared adults, especially men, are every ready to predate on under 18s.
Batho ga bana le ditlhong! Ba kwala ba kanotse sehuba, blaming children. Lona boMma ba ba reng bananyana ba phaphile, you are a big part of the problem. No one absolutely no one has leeway to sleep with children!!!! It doesn't matter if the child is curious, flirting or vulnerable. Only yes means yes and children cannot consent.
The Commissioner has caused so much harm. She needs to apologize.