Unhealed trauma makes you hold onto people, and tolerate so much sh*t you don't deserve because you don't want to feel alone. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve access to your life โ no matter how much you love them.
iโm scared of the change happening in my life right now but i have this overwhelming sense of calm and a feeling that no matter what decision i make, everything (and i mean everything) is going to be okay.